" You can accomplish that today by adding to the Employees table another column, say, Name_If_Manager with a formula like $Full_Name if $Role == "manager" else "". This will duplicate the Full_Name column but only for managers.
Then in the Projects table, set your Managers column to point to table Employees and for “SHOW COLUMN” select Name_If_Manager. This will limit the dropdown to non-empty values, which happen to be only the managers."
so here is your first table.
check the formula… when there is a date and check is 0, then it is the email, else is blank.
SO only where your conditions are ok, it will repeat the email.